Friday, May 27, 2005

Behind the Keyboard - dug up for Hoot

Do you remember sitting in a chatroom, watching people chat, or even chatting yourself? Do you remember receiving so many forwards that your mailbox was ready to explode? How about receiving an email from someone just searching for a friend. Did you wonder who these people might be that are behind the keyboard?

Online we meet new people from all around the world. Some we chat with just once and then we go on. Others we chat with time and time again, and a friendship is made. Others become our email buddies, and we look forward to their emails each day, but have you ever really wondered who was really behind the keyboard?

So often we meet a friend in chat we stay up all night chatting, sometimes we laugh so hard we cannot type, other times we cry and our keyboards are stained from tears. We chat about our lives and help solve each others' problems, we lend a shoulder if we can. Did you ever think to yourself, who is really behind that keyboard?

Did you ever chat with someone that promised you the world and that your friendship will be forever, and then they are gone? Do you forget about them and move on, or do you wonder "who was that person really, that was behind the keyboard?

Have you ever hid behind your keyboard, pretending to be something you are not, just to boost your ego? As you sat there and typed have you ever lied, thinking "who cares, the person behind the keyboard, it is only a fake person?" Did you ever hurt someone thinking "it's only a game"?

Well, behind each and every keyboard are very real people, some might be heartless cold people, not caring who they hurt, but then there are people that are caring, loyal, honest and all kinds of people hoping for some companionship online.

Behind the keyboard can be someone who is seriously depressed and their only hope is to make a friend, maybe an aging person who once had a family, but now they live too far apart to see one another, perhaps there is someone that cannot walk anymore or a person so ill they are in the house forever.

As we enter the world of the internet we should remember, it is a very real world and behind each and every keyboard is a person who has a heart. No one has a life that is pain free, so as we go online whether in chat or just emailing, we must remember to treat each person the way the we want to be treated, to respect each others' feelings, and to offer friendship, because the truth is we really do not know who is behind the keyboard or what kind of hurt someone may be feeling. To be the best to others that you can be should be the "key" to a good, honest life.


Blogger cali said...

Perhaps I'm a little "sensitive" (aka drunk) right now but that was such a wonderfully true post. It confirmed to me at least that YOU are a caring, thoughtful person. Thanks lucy for interjecting some real discourse on the issue of online discourse.
btw - i assume u know steve t = cali
(I actually liked the idea that someone would comment on the resume)

5/28/05, 2:15 AM  
Blogger LucyDDCF said...

your very welcome. no i didn't know that = as in the same person or ppl directly related to one another?

5/28/05, 8:36 AM  
Blogger Spirit Of Owl said...


Well, I read it - but don't rub it out! It's a good piece, and it's a good reminder. I for one only forget that there is anybody out there after my 10th bottle of Cobbler's Old Wobbly... :-)

Kidding! I know for sure that the Internet is made of bits, bytes, and mortal blood, and I never forget that I'm dealing with real live people.

Sorry you're having a hard time at the minute. I hope you get some kind of a good break soon.

5/28/05, 10:03 AM  
Blogger LucyDDCF said...

nooooooooo hoot... I dug that up and posted it as a reference to a post you made yesterday where your talking about your blog whoring... ;) I just thought you'd find it an intresting read, sure I'll leave it up.

5/28/05, 11:23 AM  

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